When I was in my mid-twenties, I was a dominatrix for a couple of years. I moved to New York at the age of 24 and was blogging, but I needed a job. The mistress I worked for had a lot of submissives.
Most of them were dudes who paid her by the hour to whip them in a dungeon—which is what most people think of when they think of BDSM. If she needed someone to change her air conditioner, they would come and change her air conditioner.
They would drop her off at the airport if she was going on vacation—things like that. This dynamic was so foreign and intriguing to me.
What exactly were these pwrsonal slaves getting out of all these chores? To find out, I thought it would be interesting to explore in intimate detail the relationship between a dom and a lifestyle sub.
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They are very committed to each other, and they give each other so much mutual support. Skave Puppy helps Mistress Lucy keep her life organized by washing her sex toys, cleaning her dungeon, doing her grocery shopping, cleaning her house, feeding her pets, and all that stuff—basically, being her personal assistant.
And she seems happy to transform his life. Also, Mistress Lucy considers herself a sadist, so she loves inflicting pain on people. Pain Puppy's really good at taking pain.
So, the two sometimes go into the dungeon and she whips him. I witnessed a session, and had never seen someone take so many whips from Male bullwhip in all of my time spent in dungeons.
They said it functioned as a mental and emotional release for both of them.
I was surprised at how satisfying and how rewarding it seemed to be. Persoonal hanging out with the pair for a few days, I realized that having an unpaid intern could be really great and that maybe I should add one to my life.
So, Mistress Lucy helped me put out a call for a lifestyle slave and I held auditions in Brooklyn. All these guys showed up to try out. They basically talked to me about what their skills were, why they felt that they were qualified to do my chores, and what their relationship to submission was.
Then, I spanked them and put them Nsa classifieds Shepway some low-key physical torture to see if they skave handle it.
It was really fun. I finally found Make me your personal sex slave w guy who was really sweet and experienced as a sub and Mke, most importantly, said he would be more than willing to get down on all fours and become my human bench when my feet get tired from walking all over the city in heels.
So, I whipped him and took him home with me for a test run to wash my dishes, rub my feet, and paint my nails.Horny Harmarville Babes
It was incredible for both of us. Mistress Lucy and Pain Puppy, for instance, were exchanging so much and giving each other yuor much more support than you would think. Sign up for the best of VICE, delivered to your inbox daily. Newsletters are the new newsletters.